Hello ,guys welcome back to my channel, this is Augustine okpala.
I use to be an insecure guy, i don’t really know how to be able to make a living out from the skills i have due to social anxiety.
i know some of us might be experiencing this right now.
It was my daily routine that made it seem like i don’t achieve my goals.
its pretty hard to know that you have a problem, the worst thing that can happen to anyone is this not knowing you have one and how to fix it.
I engaged in self development books which i will be listing below, one of the book that changed me was a book by Robert T. Kiyosaki Rich dad poor dad.
I read this book for weeks that i needed to isolate myself from the outside world to find my purpose in life.
which i am studying the self help book, the rich dad was teaching that investing and being a problem solver is how one can do upgrade in his life and creating something of value is the key if you really want to successful in life.
The poor dad, he teaches that one should go to school get a degree work all your life thats it.
life of the poor dad does not make meaning because of the way the bring up kids that more of the reason the rich keep getting rich and the poor get poorer.
This made a swift in my mindset on how i see life actually that of a poor dad some of us are trained this way.
I kept reading more books and the more i read about life and the rich people and those that have achieved the best things in life.
I started to see the reason the school is just a business.
Now to the reason you are watching this video….
There are six things that helped me out in my 20s
🚨TIME MANAGEMENT
This is hard to program you need to know what task that can be done at the the moment,
i do mistake this by procastinating a task i can do at the moment i end up not doing it after a long run
here is a solution….
I write out the task i need to complete for the day, i start out with the hard ones
then gradually to the easy ones…
i do more of learning skills in my 20s thats is graphics designing and video editing… that took 3 hrs of my time per day then i went to gym which takes 4 hrs of my time all the tasks for the day all planned out and carried out with ease..
With the help of time management i am able to make life easier for me…
🚨PUTTING IN THE WORK…
Most of us have this dream or work we want to do in our lifes but we end up not doing any or putting in any work towards it..
i have been a victim of this you need to know one thing in life a dream is just a dream without putting in the work towards that dream..
start of with writing out your gaols and this goals can be your long terms goals, you need to group them to sub goals thats is the one that you need to start working on now this will make it easier for you to get in track for the main goals …there is always a starting point in life so make a realislitic goal to get started….
🚨BE CONSISTENT IN WHAT YOU DO….
Consistency in the work or task whatever it is we do be it to promote our business,products,skills..
being consistent for 6 months will make you beat time and results is always assured…
i can’t elaborate more on this its as simple as taking my advise
stay consistent and you will see results…
🚨DISCIPLINE YOURSELF
No, this is not the part you punish yourself take it as self love.
discipline for one self is an act of self love, this is avoiding the pleasure of now and focus on the goals. sometimes i don’t feel like going to gym every morning.
the word feel is so stupid if you dont have emotional intellengence you end up regretting…
you dont need motivation to do any task or to to go to gym…
every sucessful person out there did not get where the are because of the were motivated.
motivation is just 1% the 99% is discipline.
until you learn-to sacrifice the pleasure of now for greater things.
you will be succesfull.
🚨EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
this is a hard one, i learned this the hard way I have a bad habit on spending money on things that don’t really add value to my existence until i learned about emotional intelligence from one of the books called emotional intelligence i found out my mistakes and i took correction asap..
this is not just in terms of money this apply in our daily lifes,relationships and family.
knowing when to back out from that toxic relationship,toxic friends. This is something you need to evaluate yourself on and find out what is really matters in your life and then make the changes…
🚨INVESTING IN YOURSELF
This one you wont learn in school or been told..
if you are listening to this before your 20s or your 20’s you are need to take it serious..
in the present system we are programmed to work or should i say get a go to collage get a degree and get a job and work all your life and retire..
thats all gone this generation you can make a difference by working on your dreams how can this come true by investing in yourself.
learn about what you want to achieve in life ..read books and feed your mind with the things that will make you a better versuion of yourself.
self developments books which I will be listing soon..
you dont need to work 9-5 to make money even 9-5 cant make you millions. i belive the goal is to be free from the 9-5 work line..
be a problem solver if you want to make it big ..
Amazon, Walmart, Apple, Innoson, These owners are problem solvers and the are reaping the seeds the sowed..
✅ LEARN SKILLS AND REMOVE THE L AND EARN….
📌This are the 6 things i have learned in my 20 and am still learning life, it’s all about your mindset about life what you believe in will always work for you…
STAY BEASTLY
